“I had to do this for my mom. I made her a promise that I would donate my kidney because it was the only way my mom was going to feel better. I figured since I was a healthy guy — I don’t drink, and I don’t smoke — and my kidneys were in great shape, I would give someone the gift of life.
“My decision was not difficult at all, although my initial thought process was probably a bit naïve and careless. I did not know anything about the risks, nor did I care. I just knew this was what I needed to do. I was a little worried that I wouldn’t have the same life I had before. I know I’m a healthy person, but I wanted to know how the transplant was going to affect me. Dr. Locke had patience with me as I asked her many questions about the process.
“I recently had an opportunity to share my story with someone, and I like that I can advocate to many different people about the benefits of being a donor. I am on board with sharing my story if that means I get to help someone else who is in need. If you are someone who wants to make a significant difference for not only a single person, but for humanity, then take on the challenge and become a living kidney donor.
“My meeting with my recipient was emotional and a bit shocking. It’s easy for me to give, but to see the person I gave my kidney to is an amazing experience.
“He sent me a thank-you card in the mail after the transplant process, and I would love to communicate with him again. It’s kind of hard since he is an older gentleman, and he does not have a Facebook account. But I will make a better effort to talk to him to see how he is doing.
“I didn’t think too much of the kidney chain before. When I first heard about it, I thought there was a lot of faux hype behind it; but going through the process, I feel like a rock star who has had his five minutes of fame.
“Dr. Locke impressed me by her knowledge level and how she took care of me. Going into this, I never could imagine that one of the top doctors would be my doctor during this journey.
“I can honestly say that becoming a living donor changed my life. I have a different perspective on life now. I’m more empathetic. I focus less on myself and more on what I can do for others. I also have a new drive to influence other people to become living donors as well.”